What is EMDR and How Can It Help Me?

What is EMDR? 

Originally developed to treat post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), EMDR is used by the NHS and is now used more broadly for complex trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, phobias, grief, and performance blocks. It is recommended by organisations such as the World Health Organisation and the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence for the treatment of trauma.

How can EMDR help me? 

EMDR is based on the understanding that traumatic experiences can become 'stuck' in the body/nervous system. When an event or a set of cirumstances overwhelms a person's usual capacity to cope, the memory may not be processed in the usual or adaptive way. Instead, it can remain stored with the original images, emotions, physical sensations, and the negative beliefs intact. This can lead to symptoms such as anxiety, flashbacks, shame, hypervigilance, or low self-worth.   Eye Movement and Desensitisation Reprogramming uses the body's own natural processing to overcome trauma. It is linked to the processes that occur during Rapid Eye Movement (REM) which all mammals do unknowingly, when they are asleep. Without us knowing, our eyes move back and forth while the brain processes emotional experiences from the day. Some researches suggest that the bilateral stimulation used in EMDR may activate similar neurobiological mechanism, facilitating the natural processing system of the brain. In this way, EMDR can be understood as helping the brain do what it is already wired to do; metabolise and integrate an experience. 

What does an EMDR session look like?

EMDR therapy, you will be asked to briefly focus on a distressing memory while simultaneously engaging in bilateral stimulation; most commonly guided eye movement, usually just side to side, following the clinicians figure or a ball on the screen online. This dual attention process appears to help the brain reprocess the memory so that it becomes far less emotionally charged. The memory does not disappear, but it feels less overwhelming and more in the past. EMDR is an integrative approach that works with memory, emotion, cognition, and the body, supporting deep and lasting psychological change.

Why is EMDR a block of 6 sessions?

With a process like EMDR I recommend working within a block of six sessions. This is about creating the structure and containment that EMDR needs in order to be safe, effective and meaningful. 

It is an eight-phased structured approach developed by Dr Francine Shapiro, and each phase builds on the previous ne. We begin with careful history-taking and assessment, identifying target memories and understanding how past experiences link to present-day triggers. We then focus on preparation, developing grounding skills, emotional regulation strategies, and ensuring that you feel resourced and supported before we process anything distressing. Rushing this stage would not be clinically responsible. Working in a defined block helps you commit to the process. EMDR can sometimes feel intense and knowing we have protected time set aside supports perseverance throught he natureal fluctuations of the therapeutic work. It allowsus to track change, notice patterns, and consolidate gains rather than stopping just as momentum builds. 

Importantly, six sessions is not a rigid contract. It is a clinically informed starting point. At the end of the bock, we review together: what has shifted, what still feels active and what feels complete. Some people need fewer sessions; others benefit from extending the work. The block simply ensures that EMDR is offered with the depth, stability, and ethical care it deserves. In this way, the structure supports not onoy effectiveness but also containment; helping you to feel held whild doing courageous psychological work.

What is Psychodynamic Psychotherapy and How Can it Help Me?

Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is a depth-oriented form of therapy that focuses on understanding how past experiences, early relationships and unconscious patterns shape the way we thinking, feel and relate in the present. 

Rather than concentrating only on current symptoms, psychodynamic work explored the emotional roots beneath them. Difficulties such as anxiety, low self-worth, relationship struggles, or repeated life/behavioural patterns are often linked to earlier experiences that have not been fully processed or underst6ood. These experiences can live on internally, influencing expectations, defences and relational dynamics, often outside of our conscious awareness.

In therapy, we pay attention to what is happening in your life now and how you experienced yourself and others, including within the therapeutic relationship. Pattens that show up in your relationship may gently emerge in the room, offering an opportunity to understand them sagely and in real time. This is not about blame, but about curiosity and compassion. 

This approach has its roots in the work of Sigmund Freud, but modern psychodynamic psychotherapy has evolved significantly. Contemporary practitioners integrate attachment therapy, relational thinking, and neuroscience-informed perspectives. The focus is collaborative, reflective, and grounded in building a secure therapeutic relationship. 

Sessions usually involve open conversation. You are encouraged to speak freely about whatever feels important; thoughts, feelings, memories, dreams or recurring situations. Together, we explore patterns and emotional themes, gradually developing insight into how past experiences may be influencing present choices and relationships.

At its heart, psychodynamic therapy offers a space for you to slow down, reflect, and make sense of your inner world so that change feels possible, sustainable and authentic. 

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